What best fits the description of your feelings in marriage?
1. I married my partner but didn't see the flaws they had back then; now I wish I could change them
2. My partner and I knew each other's weaknesses and embrace them
3. I have a hard time thinking that my spouse might not change what is annoying to me
4. I'm working on choosing my battles, and I see improvement in how much I am able to love my spouse through their flaws
5. Realizing that I have flaws and still loves me helps me love them through their flaws
6. My spouse is perfect/ IE honeymoon phase
7 My spouse's strengths outweigh their weaknesses, because I really do care about their good strengths
You may be a combination of some of the above. It's OK to where you are at, because you are HERE, learning, growing, and evaluating how you see the world and your marriage. Just a pointer, the best options you should work towards are:
1. I married my partner but didn't see the flaws they had back then; now I wish I could change them
2. My partner and I knew each other's weaknesses and embrace them
3. I have a hard time thinking that my spouse might not change what is annoying to me
4. I'm working on choosing my battles, and I see improvement in how much I am able to love my spouse through their flaws
5. Realizing that I have flaws and still loves me helps me love them through their flaws
6. My spouse is perfect/ IE honeymoon phase
7 My spouse's strengths outweigh their weaknesses, because I really do care about their good strengths
You may be a combination of some of the above. It's OK to where you are at, because you are HERE, learning, growing, and evaluating how you see the world and your marriage. Just a pointer, the best options you should work towards are:
1, 3, 5, 7
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